Tuesday, September 2, 2008

My main issue - at this point, with Palin.

Yeah - so her 17 year old daughter is having a baby, probably because Ms Palin taught her daughter abstinence only, which is the educational model Ms Palin supported in Alaska... now that we're over that, can we discuss the way she told the world about it???

The McCain campaign has said they knew about Bristol's pregnancy when they chose her mother and the only reason Sarah Palin chose to share it on Monday was to refute the "liberal blogger" rumors that Trig was actually Bristol's child.

So - that makes Sarah Palin not only an incredibly selfish mother, but also an easily manipulatable and thin skinned politician. Are we really suppose to believe that she sacrificed her 17 year old daughter (who must already be going through a lot mentally and physically) to the American Media (and every Anne Coulter wanna-be sitting at home), just so half a dozen people on the web would stop challenging her word that Trig was her child??? Trig's too young to even know what's going on - and if he's really her child there should be a couple pages of medical records that could quickly set everything straight...

I mean really???

You don't react to those sorts of rumors, and particularly not in a way that subjects your daughter (someone she should want to be protecting with a thick cloak of privacy right about now) to a lot of negative commentary.

I mean the other issue is when she thought she was going to tell us... when the baby popped out??? I think a big sign that Ms Palin isn't ready for the rigours of national politics, is that she didn't tell anyone in the state of Alaska she was preggers with Trig till she was 2 months away from delivery... and I realize, for a woman her age, the likihood of a miscarriage and other complications were a lot higher, but that's the sort of thing that would never fly on the national stage, those are the sorts of things that you have to talk about with people - not because it's going to effect anything, just simply because major life events, even of a personal nature, have to get shared when you're a politician so that people don't think you're hiding stuff (or trying to call your daughter's baby your own...). The only reason those rumors could so easily gain so much ground is because of the odd way she delt with her pregnancy with Trig.

If she was going to tell us about Bristol's pregnancy, she should have done it when she made her initial speach, she walked on stage with her family and introduced them, except she should have said something like this -

"My son Track is not here, he's off training for deployment to Iraq in September. This is my youngest daughter Piper, and next, Willow, and our eldest daughter Bristol. She's holding our youngest child Trig - I've had her helping me with Trig quite a bit, to set a good example for her and help her learn as much as possible about dealing with new-borns, as she's expecting her first child in December. And speaking of new additions to our family, I'd like you to meet my soon-to-be son-in-law Levi, who's here tonight in the audience, to support Bristol and their baby. While I know my Bristol will be growing up even faster than we ever imagined, my husband Todd and I know the importance of giving them our full love and support while they start their new family together. We know the difference a strong and caring family makes in the lives of children and how hard families, not just ours, all over this country are dealing, right now, with challenges they never throught they would have to face, and that's why I'm so proud to run for Vice President of this grest country, because I believe I am the right person to work with John McCain to help struggling families across our nation prosper and grow stronger! (continue random nomination drivel here...)"


Bam - nothing more to be said. And nobody could run around with that.

However - I do appreciate how well it worked this way, where the conservative women rallied around her in the face of little investigation stuff, and declared their love for her, so that when she released the info about her daughter, all they could do was say that it doesn't change anything and any one who speaks ill of the girl or her mother is heartless and liberal... whereas if they'd had the info about the daughter to start with they might have been a bit less eager to take Sarah into their fold.

So it's sort of a toss up - but I really can't believe she let it all slip this way just to refute a couple bloggers... if that's really the truth behind their decision to release the information, Ms Palin is a pretty heartless mother and unthoughtful politician.


We won't even get into the fact that Sarah and Todd Palin referred to their daughter's "choice" to keep the baby and marry the father, and unless I hear a little more information about how it all went down, I'm not inclined to believe that Miss Bristol Palin had one tiny bit of choice when it came to what was going to happen to her baby or herself and her future. Maybe Levi proposed to her before they ever told either sets of parents, maybe they're totally in love and got pregnant on purpose, maybe - but until we get more details, that's a pretty hard situation to believe.

And if the right is all about loving, caring families, which is what I presume "Family Values" is all about, then why are they so eager and excited to force young mothers into marrying the fathers of their children... is that really the way to start a loving and caring family... that seems like just about the worst reason in the world to get married (getting preggers) - and I can't believe anyone who supports strong families would support such a step. (Yeah, I realize that Sarah and Todd Palin had Track a mere 8 months after they eloped, so Bristol's just following family tradition, albeit a few years early... and Sarah and Todd and many other people who got married in similar manners had very long marriages, so I shouldn't knock all shot-gun weddings... but...really).

4 comments:

Jill Homer said...

The rumor that Trig was not Sarah's baby has been floating around Alaska since the kid was born in April. The whole thing was odd - sending Bristol away from Juneau with a "serious case of mono" before the school year started in 2007 ... Palin announcing her pregnancy seven months in ... and the general consensus that she never looked pregnant. My co-worker Brian has made a small fortune in the past few days selling photos of Sarah that he shot between March and April 2008. I looked at them. I'm not a maternity judge, but I have to admit, the whole thing is very strange. The kid weighed 6 pounds and she didn't even looked like she gained that much in early April. I'm not saying I buy the particular conspiracy theory that Trigg is not her biological baby, but this latest announcement does make one wonder if there is a whole lot more going on with both situations than the Palins have let on, and what, and why.

She would have been a lot better off releasing the "oh, and my daughter Bristol is pregnant" info after she had more solidly established herself on the national ticket. The way she jumped into it on day three, when it would have been so much easier to dispute the rumors by either ignoring them or quietly releasing medical records ... odd.

This is going to be a strange election. You can't help but wonder if it's going to end up as yet another slash through the veneer of social conservatism.

Ed said...

Can you imagine the pressure on "...that certain young man..." and Bristol to marry? I shiver at the thought.

The Republicans have cursed themselves by aligning with the hypocritical Christian conservatives. Can you imagine if Obama had a daughter of the same age and she was pregnant? The viciousness would be unmatched by anything the "liberal" media is dishing out.

McCain was foolish and impulsive in his pick if indeed she was not properly vetted. Other than the stunning announcement which deflated some of the Obama balloon after the DNC, they don't seem to have much of a plan to deal with all the supposedly well researched and known issues that are coming up.

Unless crafty McCain, after pandering to the nut job religious right (NOT women) is hoping Palin gets tossed and that leaves open the window for his personal favorite choice - Lieberman...?

I'm going to listen to the RNC speeches but McCain has damaged his credibility with me.

Ed

FixieDave said...

I think to a degree Sarah was protecting her daughter by running...

How would her daughter feel knowing her mom turned down the nomanation due to her preg?

I can't wait for the debates!

BO has bothered me sense he started his campign...

Meredith said...

Don't get me wrong Mr Nice - I'm not implying she shouldn't be running, either because she has a four month old with Downs Syndrome, or because her daughter is preggers... I think both those things are fine for a Veep candidate, however, I think there are right and wrong ways to deal with those issues. And the decisions she makes are going to be watched closely, because that will tell us about how she makes decisions.

What I think was wrong was how she dumped her daughter to the media to counter blogging rumors about herself - you don't sacrifice your daughter because people are talking bad about you, you confront the people in a way that also protects what's important to you... which makes me wonder, what's most important to her, obviously not her daughter's privacy in this instance!